Has it ever happened to you wherein you really hate someone that all that is left to do is sock that person right in their face? Well I am not clearly sure as to if I have experienced it but then yeah maybe I have had in the past and I just forgot but then there is this time that you feel really mad at someone and you so want to hit him/her but then you can't and so you just stare at him in a really bad way. As you do so you sort of think about that person and you look at his/her side and realize that you can't really blame the person for whatever reason it is that you have.
I came up to a conclusion or rather a thought or an idea at some time this week that we tend to get mad at people or get irritated at them based on our point of view but then if things were to be balanced there are actually two sides to everything and both must be taken into consideration equally. Normally people give judgments that are very one sided; actually forget about giving judgments lets just say a normal tantrum at someone. Usually more often than not we feel bad at someone just because that person has done something that has a negative effect on you but then damn humans we are, we do not look at the thing as a whole. It is easy to give off a feeling, emotion, reaction, action, etc but sadly once done, once said, once felt, once released it's hard to change, to take back or to alter.
One friendly reminder I got to realize: hard it may be do not just act upon something. Always make sure that you look at both sides because once you look at just one side damn that's already fifty percent of the whole thing that you are missing.
:) Smile Always :)
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